Ruichang Xie (谢瑞嫦)

This was our first baby, and we are very grateful to Auntie Xie for coming to our home to help for a month. Auntie took care of the baby with great attentiveness and patience. As soon as she arrived, it was clear she was very experienced, and she taught us, as first-time parents, a lot of practical knowledge. When we were not yet very comfortable with breastfeeding at the beginning, Auntie helped adjust the positioning. When I had clogged ducts, she also helped massage to clear the milk ducts and prevent it from developing into mastitis. She also helped the baby develop a regular routine of feeding every three hours, and she constantly paid attention to the baby’s growth, observed changes in the baby’s skin, bathed the baby at regular times, and washed the baby’s bottom after every bowel movement to prevent diaper rash. Newborn babies often have gas, and Auntie also taught us different burping positions so the baby could become comfortable and fall asleep as soon as possible. We used an app to record the baby’s daily activities, and Auntie was also very diligent in recording every diaper change and feeding time. At night, Auntie took care of the baby. Whether the baby was crying or hungry, we did not need to worry at all, which allowed us to rest and sleep peacefully. This kind of help was especially important for a mother who had just given birth and been discharged from the hospital, allowing me to properly recover. Auntie is also very good at cooking. Although caring for the baby kept her very busy, she still found time every day to cook three meals. The dishes were tasty and nutritious, and she also simmered restorative tea for me to drink every day. She always kept the kitchen clean and tidy, which showed that she cared a lot about hygiene. Auntie always had a very good attitude, and from every detail of how she cared for the baby, we could feel that she truly loves little babies. We felt very at ease leaving the baby in Auntie’s care, both in terms of safety and in every aspect of her attentiveness. We highly recommend Auntie Xie and sincerely thank her for her dedicated care during this month! This was our first baby, and we are so grateful to have had Xie Ahyi come to our home to help for a month. She took care of our baby with so much care and patience and taught us new parents so much practical knowledge. When we were still getting the hang of breastfeeding, she helped adjust my positioning to ensure a good latch. Whenever I had clogged ducts, she would massage them to help clear the blockage and prevent mastitis. She also helped get the baby into a good routine, feeding every three hours, and constantly kept an eye on the baby's development e.g. watching for any skin abnormalities, giving baths every 3-4 days, and washing the baby's butt after every poop to prevent diaper rash. Newborns often have gas, and Xie Ahyi also taught us different burping positions to help the baby get comfortable and fall asleep faster. Since we track the baby's daily activities through an app, she was diligent about logging every diaper change and feeding time for us. At night, she took care of the baby, so we could rest more peacefully and didn't have to take care of every fussing and feeding. This was especially important for a mom that just gave birth and needed time to recover. Xie Ahyi is also a great cook. Even with a busy schedule caring for the baby, she still found time every day to cook three meals for us. The dishes were delicious and nutritious, and she also brewed a healing Chinese herbal tea for me to drink every day. She always kept the kitchen clean and organized, which showed how much she cares about hygiene and food safety. Throughout her entire time with us, Xie Ahyi maintained a great attitude, and it was obvious in every little detail of her care that she truly loves babies. We felt at ease knowing our newborn was in such safe, caring hands. We highly recommend Xie Ahyi, and we're very thankful for her month of dedicated care.

Having Aunt Xie (Gold) in our home was truly a blessing. I think we are one of the few families who hired her until the baby turned 1. We had the pleasure of working with Aunt Xie from December 2025 to early July 2026, shortly after our son's first birthday. To be clear, Aunt Xie was my postpartum nanny from June 2025 to early Aug 2025. Lucky for us, she agreed to work with us a second time! Aunt Xie quickly became an integral part of our family, adapting as our son transitioned from infant to toddler. She is an exceptional nanny -attentive, patient, kind, and caring toward both our children. I often hear her singing, chatting, or laughing with the baby. She is also adaptable and open to feedback, which was essential to our caretaking relationship. We asked her to track the baby's feeding and sleep schedule. There is no question that our son absolutely adores Aunt Xie. Recently, she taught him how to clap, and he proudly calls out to her to show off his claps. They read together, laugh together, and go on neighborhood walks together, while I work from home. Seeing their relationship develop has brought me so much joy. Aunt Xie truly values the baby's happiness and comfort, often ensuring he's well fed and happily playing before she eats her meals. Lastly, I can confidently say that Aunt Xie is a talented chef. She cooks healthy, delicious meals for us, sometimes with limited ingredients. I'll miss her delicious chicken and fish dishes! I appreciate that she easily creates a menu based on what we have in the house. Having her cook our meals eliminated most of the decision fatigue of meal planning. This has been a transformative experience for our family. I am deeply grateful to Aunt Xie for caring for our entire family for an extended period. I hope you consider hiring her as well!

We are pleased to write this letter of recommendation for Gold (we called her Xie Ayi), who worked with our family as a confinement nanny for one month following the birth of our baby. As first-time parents, we truly could not have asked for a more supportive, capable, and compassionate caregiver during such a vulnerable and important time. From the very beginning, she brought an incredible level of care into our home. Her Chinese cooking was outstanding — each meal typically included three thoughtfully prepared dishes along with a soup, all of which were both nourishing and delicious. She maintained exceptional cleanliness in the kitchen, especially when handling raw ingredients, and consistently left the space spotless and well-sanitized after every meal. Beyond her help with meals, she was instrumental in guiding us through the basics of newborn care. She patiently taught us techniques for diaper changes, bathing, and feeding, which greatly increased our confidence as new parents. She was also extremely attentive to our baby’s feeding and diaper schedules. Although we tracked everything through an app, she had the details memorized and was always one step ahead. She was especially supportive during my breastfeeding journey. She helped stimulate my initial milk supply through massage and, later on, spent extra time assisting me through clogged ducts with additional care and attention. Her support during this time made a meaningful difference in both my comfort and recovery. Her overnight support was truly invaluable. She was always the first to respond when our baby woke — quickly comforting, changing, and feeding her so she could settle back to sleep. She consistently encouraged us to rest and reminded us that recovery after childbirth is essential, showing genuine concern for both the baby’s well-being and the mother’s healing. Above all, Gold is an incredibly patient, calm, and loving person who genuinely enjoys caring for babies. It was clear from the start that she truly cared for our child, and that sense of trust and peace meant everything to us. We are deeply grateful for her support and would wholeheartedly recommend her to any family seeking a dedicated and compassionate nanny. Warmly, Grace Chan

想向大家推荐我的月嫂谢阿姨， 大家都知道好的月嫂阿姨是不在市面上流通的。 这就是谢阿姨。 我们已经在担心我们二胎的时候能不能抢到谢阿姨的档期！ 谢阿姨来到我们家的第一天就迅速进入工作， 安顿好宝宝和我，然后快速的整理厨房的食物。这样我也安心休息，一觉醒来我的胸硬的像个石头， 又硬又滚烫， 谢阿姨知道后， 立刻帮我通乳，她的通乳手法很好，她在我的整个月子帮助我数次通乳， 一次次地帮我避免发烧堵奶以及乳腺炎。 （阿姨的手法不重， 但非常有效）更是通过美味营养的广式汤煲，帮助我迅速的增加我的产奶量， 现在我的奶量很健康而且有足够多的奶给宝宝喝！ 宝宝还富有余粮！ 谢阿姨有着过硬的宝宝护理技术跟对宝宝的爱心以及耐心。 从她平时与宝宝的相处， 我们非常安心， 宝宝都很喜欢谢阿姨，因为可以看出她非常喜爱宝宝并且在宝宝哭闹时非常有耐心。 阿姨护理宝宝更是非常细心， 帮宝宝洗澡的时候她会细心的避开脐带附近防止水淋湿， 宝宝的脐带恢复的非常快！我们的宝宝很早开始肠胀气 经常我半夜起来泵奶的时候， 谢阿姨还在温柔细心的哄着宝宝， 帮她拍嗝哄睡。 谢阿姨对宝宝的护理技术和耐心，让我可以在月子里得到更好的休息！ 谢阿姨更像是我们的家人，会在我情绪低落时陪伴安慰我， 让我注意身体。 谢阿姨的通情达理以及人生智慧，让我跟宝爸都受益匪浅。 我们表达了希望与谢阿姨可以做长期的朋友及像家人一样来往，以后带宝宝去看她，让宝宝知道她刚出生时她被谢阿姨温柔的爱护照顾！

不用再犹豫了，谢阿姨是一位真正值得信赖的月嫂。下面分享一些她为我们准备的健康菜肴，作为参考。她蒸的鱼比我在任何餐馆吃过的都要鲜美可口。我们全家人都能深切感受到她的耐心与热情。 她有一种特别的力量，总能在紧张时刻安抚人心。她温柔的声音，甚至能在短短几秒钟内让宝宝安然入睡。她也非常乐于分享经验，耐心指导我母乳喂养、抱宝宝和拍嗝的方法。没有她的帮助，我可能会一直手忙脚乱地面对哭闹的婴儿。 更让我感到安心的是，谢阿姨非常负责任。无论是照顾宝宝还是打理家务，她都细致入微，从不疏忽。我完全可以放心把宝宝交给她照看，也能在产后得到真正的休息和恢复。 从她丰富的育儿知识，到她精湛的厨艺，我们全家都由衷感激在最需要的时候有她相伴。能够遇到谢阿姨，真的是我们最幸运、最宝贵的缘分。遇见谢阿姨，就是您难得的“黄金”发现！

Aunt Xie (Gold) is an outstanding postpartum caregiver. She is kind, considerate, professional, patient, careful, and extremely diligent in her work. Moreover, her cheerful demeanor makes everyone feel at ease. Every time our son sees her, he smiles! Aunt Xie is exceptionally skilled at caring for newborns. During her service at our home, she patiently helped our son recover from hyperbilirubinemia and even assisted him in gaining weight, ensuring he grew up strong and healthy. Additionally, Aunt Xie's cooking style is not only delicious but also efficient. I admire her ability to quickly prepare multiple dishes. Her culinary skills and herbal remedies were immensely helpful during my postpartum recovery. Her breastfeeding techniques were exceptional, enabling me to achieve exclusive breastfeeding, with plenty of surplus milk. As a mother, I am deeply grateful for the support and advice she provided during these 7 weeks. We will all deeply miss Aunt Xie!

I can say with 100% certainty that hiring Gold was the best investment I’ve ever made in my life. Gold (we call her Ayi) is absolutely wonderful! She supported me (new mother), my husband, and our new son for 6 weeks after birth. I am half-Chinese, originally from Texas, but don’t speak Mandarin. My husband is Taiwanese-American from Long Island, NY, so neither of us were very familiar with confinement practices, but we were excited to have the support and experience, so we hired Gold. Not only is Gold very positive and loving towards me and our baby, she is incredibly knowledgeable and a baby expert. She basically taught us how to be loving and responsible parents (through burping, breastfeeding, pumping, massage to unclog ducts, bottle feeding and cleaning, diaper changing, swaddling, snot sucking, all the things!). She is a patient teacher and coach to my husband and I. Her love for babies and post-partum mothers is so clear. She sings and says many positive things to our baby and us. She has endless patience, burping and holding him for as long as is needed. Gold is also very flexible. Though she advises us on best practices, she is flexible when our wishes are different. For example, though typically new mothers stay indoors during confinement, she acknowledged my need to go for a short walk each day starting around 2.5 weeks in. Also, her cooking is fantastic!! She is very resourceful, finding things from our fridge and freezer that we’d likely never cook and cooking it in an innovative and delicious way! I wish she would be our full-time nanny, but I understand that she prefers supporting new mothers and babies through confinement. - Katie Kuo (McMurray)

真的非常幸运能遇到谢阿姨这样优秀的月嫂。非常感谢阿姨在月子期间对我和宝宝无微不至的照顾。谢阿姨不仅照顾我细致入微，对宝宝的作息和生活习惯也调理得特别好。宝宝现在长得特别健康，状态也非常好，真是让人放心又欣喜。临走前，她还手把手教我如何换尿布、哄睡、拍嗝，把各种育儿经验和细节耐心地传授给我，不断鼓励我：“你一定能把宝宝带得很好！”让我在成为新手妈妈的过程中充满信心和力量。阿姨做的饭菜不仅健康美味，尤其是她亲手制作的广式甜品——芝麻糊、牛奶西米露等，甜度适中、毫无负担，让人回味无穷。谢阿姨在调理身体方面也非常有经验，月子期间为我精心搭配了各种中药汤水，有助于补气养血、祛寒排湿，让我在恢复期感觉越来越有精神。涨奶和通乳几乎是每个新手妈妈都会遇到的难题。谢阿姨的无痛通乳手法真的非常专业，刚生完那几天我涨奶得特别厉害，甚至在凌晨一点，阿姨都耐心地帮我按摩通乳，才让我顺利开启了纯母乳喂养的旅程，真的特别感激。最后，真的由衷地感谢谢阿姨这段时间的陪伴与照顾。以后有空一定要常来看我们，家里随时欢迎您！

备孕前觉得在美国找个好月嫂很难，于是就开始留意美国有哪些还不错的月嫂，加上谢阿姨是在怀孕的前一年半，期间谢阿姨每个节假日都会给我发祝福，在怀孕期间谢阿姨也会关切的让我注意休息、放松心情，并且给我发新生儿需要购买的一些好物。 谢阿姨做饭非常好吃！！！ 我跟我老公都属于吃饭很挑剔的，既要好吃也要健康，而且因为有宝宝在，我们不喜欢油烟味。谢阿姨为了满足我们的需求，她做饭完全没有油烟，而且非常好吃，非常好吃，非常好吃，就是肉眼看上去摆盘是很家常的，但是吃起来真的很好吃，连简单的炖蛋都是阿姨自己独特的好吃，更别提鸡肉 排骨 猪蹄这类，阿姨做的菜的味道可以打败99%的月嫂。我月子期间每天给我煲汤，根据月子的每一周每个阶段，准备不同的养生汤，我的气色也肉眼可见的更好了！ 谢阿姨对宝宝无微不至的呵护。 可以完全放心的把宝宝交给她，因为谢阿姨真的很有经验而且特别细心，她对宝宝的关爱在每个细节里，给宝宝喂奶拍嗝，每个晚上每时每刻关注宝宝有没有吐奶有没有不舒服有没有睡着，她其实每天睡觉的时间很少，但是她特别敬业，会把宝宝放在第一位，每一次都是看着宝宝进入深度睡眠，谢阿姨才会眯一会儿，而且谢阿姨的睡眠很浅，宝宝哼哼唧唧的一点声音阿姨都会醒过来看看宝宝。有谢阿姨在，我和老公可以完完全全的休息好。最重要的一点是，谢阿姨会给我们解释她带宝宝每个细节的注意点，我们在小红书上学到的带宝宝的细节也会跟谢阿姨交流，谢阿姨都能在第一时间满足我们的要求。